Somethings are just not forgivable. Like Physcial and verbal abuse. Lets save that for another time shall me. (let me mention that this was my 2nd husband)
Anyways, I am civil when around him. That is just who I am. Its not fair for my kid to see the anger I'm holding onto.
Well shit I've gotten way off of the topic I wanted to write about.
Sorry for that.
So recently the EX's mother died. Which is very sad. No matter what I don't wish death on anyone.
The death of my sons grandma has really upset him.
Rightfully so , he was pretty close to her. No matter how old you are death is hard to deal with.
So I correspond with the EX, giving my condolence about the death. I ask if there is anything I can do.
Even though he is remarried. It really isn't my place. But I offered anyways.
So my son and I sit down and talk about the death. He cries. and asks me if I would go with him to the funeral. I'm torn between being there for my son and being someplace where I don't really belong.
So I contact the EX and ask if it's ok if I attend the funeral. Surprisingly he says, "yes".
My big issue is, should I really be there? He is remarried. What will his wife think? If his EX shows. Will she care? Should I not go?
I would be doing it out of support for my son.
It's soooooo complicated.
Any thoughts.
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